Ukrainian Orthodoxy Orthodoxie ukrainienne

Non-Orthodox as Godparents


Question: 

I have a brother and sister-in law baptising their child and they would like me to be the Godmother.  I am not a baptised member of the Ukrainian Orthodox church.  I am however, a baptised and professing member of the Christian Reformed Church where I attend regularly.  It has been said at this point that they can not use me as a Godparent.  In your answer I read on the website you state "After all it is essentially not for social reasons that we take Godparents or baptize, but in order to bring someone into God's family".  I in no way question whether or not I am a member of God's family.  I may not be Ukrainian Orthodox but our doctrines are similar and gives us a protestant designation in common.  If indeed the importance of baptism is to bring someone into God's family would I not be a viable exception to the rule? 
Answer:  
In the Orthodox Church we express and experience our union with the Lord in His family by participation in Holy Communion.  This is shared by Orthodox.  This is why it is important for Godparents to be those who can share in that Communion.  This is not a statement to the effect that other believers - particularly those who honour and serve our Lord Jesus Christ are excluded from His family.  We can not pronounce on others; our task is to keep the vision we have received as clearly as we can.  Exceptions *can* be made at the pastor's discretion without this changing the rule.  This sort of exception is called Church economy.  It could not go so far as to include the possibility of non-baptized people being accepted a s Godparents.  It could include Christian Reformed believers - but that would depend upon the priest and how he would view the situation.  One could also go to a Bishop - and he very well might.  But one would begin with the parish priest.  I hope this is helpful and am sorry if you feel hurt and rejected.  I suppose this is part of the pain of separation that ought to spur us on to pray and prepare our hearts for unity.  That there may be manifestly (there already is invisibly) on flock and one Shepherd.
God bless.  I ask for your prayers.

Very Rev. Ihor Kutash kutash@unicorne.org